Comments on: Real Talk From Real Men http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/ Celebrating the Modern Woman of Color Sun, 19 May 2013 17:48:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: LB http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/comment-page-1/#comment-408 LB Tue, 12 Oct 2010 15:51:54 +0000 http://thevyne.wordpress.com/?p=2263#comment-408 I totally agree with that one as well. If I can let go of past hurts when I was a young adult, you can let go of one that did you wrong in college!

]]> By: LB http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/comment-page-1/#comment-407 LB Tue, 12 Oct 2010 15:50:36 +0000 http://thevyne.wordpress.com/?p=2263#comment-407 I second that one! They try and try and try, you need to wear this, you need to style your hair like that, you should do this instead of other…I’ve even had my mother-in-law try to make suggestions on what I need to change…I am 35 years old, I haven’t tried to change my husband ever, nor have I tried to change his 70 year old mother.

]]> By: Lauren http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/comment-page-1/#comment-406 Lauren Sun, 10 Oct 2010 15:05:45 +0000 http://thevyne.wordpress.com/?p=2263#comment-406 It’s so interesting how men expect women to pack light, but in my experience, men carry WAY more baggage than women. I feel like most women can recover or actively trying to recover from past heartbreak because we really want to love again, but men hold on to what happened in the past much tighter. Like dudes well into their thirties are still using failed relationships from college to justify their mistrust of women now…DUDE that was like a decade and half ago and totally different season of life!!! *blankstare*

]]> By: Lorri http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/comment-page-1/#comment-405 Lorri Sun, 10 Oct 2010 11:50:16 +0000 http://thevyne.wordpress.com/?p=2263#comment-405 Men and Women “say” that’s what they want but if the package that holds the intangibles isn’t what they want, then they don’t want that either :) Also, I think people spend too much time trying to see what they can get out of their mate to benefit themselves without first offering up the things the mate needs from them. Perhaps if they do the latter first, folks may actually find what they’re looking for.

Great Article Ladies!!

]]> By: Audrey http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/comment-page-1/#comment-404 Audrey Sun, 10 Oct 2010 02:46:34 +0000 http://thevyne.wordpress.com/?p=2263#comment-404 I think ego gets in the way of men and women giving each other what they need…its like everyone wants their needs met first before they meet the other persons needs…

]]> By: DeAndra http://www.vyneworld.com/2010/10/09/real-talk-from-real-men/comment-page-1/#comment-403 DeAndra Sun, 10 Oct 2010 02:29:24 +0000 http://thevyne.wordpress.com/?p=2263#comment-403 I think its funny that men don’t want us to try to change them but they sure try to do the same to us.

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